On Being a MAN Who "Naturally" Attracts Women

I received this in my inbox from my fav telemarketer/Love Guru : David Deangelo.

Now over the past few months since I started posting his thoughts and articles on women and relationships on my blog; I've gotten a LOT of flak from close female family members and friends.

Yes, I know Deangelo talks bollocks MOST of the time.

Yes, I know his ideas are PRETTY out there most times and demeaning to women.

Yes, I know that most of it are telemarketing / sales pitch shite.

BUT (and this is a very important but IMHO) look past all that NOISE, and glean a few of the good ideas/facts/thoughts from his salespitch. Let it ruminate in your mind and start practising it in your day to day interactions with people (not just women per se).

Trust me...it's will be an eye-opening experience for all you socially-challenged geeks out there!

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Is It True That A “Cave Man” From Ten Thousand Years Ago Would Be MUCH Better Than YOU At Attracting Hot, Sexy Women?

Success with women is a COMPLETE mystery to most men.

But it probably wasn’t a big mystery to one of your grandfathers before you… ten thousand years ago.In fact, I’ll bet that men who lived ten thousand years ago were FAR better with women than we are today, on average.

If you’re interested in learning how the secrets of a “cave man” who could steal your woman… can make you FAR more successful with women TODAY, then listen up. I'm about to tell you one of the most important stories you will ever hear…

Important note:

After 5 long years of learning how to become successful with women and dating, and 5 more years of teaching other men to do the same… I have finally discovered THE SECRET to why some men have unbelievable success with women… while most struggle and fail.

I’ve hidden this secret in the story that I’m about to tell you.

And here’s the story. Pay close attention if you want to learn how to attract more women…

You are an adolescent man living thousands of years ago… in a group with a hundred others.

In your group, there is a dominant, charismatic, powerful male leader. You admire and respect him, but also fear him. Every time you see him, you avert your gaze to avoid direct eye contact.

Lately, you've noticed that you're thinking more and more about becoming a leader. You can imagine yourself being admired by others, and being the one to lead the hunts for food.

You've also noticed that your temper and emotions are becoming harder to control. Something seems to be happening inside of you that is making you more and more irritable. You've also noticed hair growing on your face, and muscles growing on your body.

One day, while you're walking alone in the trees, you see a familiar waterfall, with a pond below. In the pond is a beautiful young woman you've admired for many years… bathing.

For some reason, on this day, she appears different to you. Today you have an unfamiliar feeling inside. At this moment, you feel an overwhelming desire to be with her… in a way you don't understand.

As you approach her, she turns and sees you. For a split-second, all of time seems to freeze… as you look into each other's eyes. It's in that moment that you realize that she is feeling something as well. Maybe not the same thing as you, but something that is her version of how you feel.

You walk toward her, and she walks toward you. You don't know what's about to happen, but you can feel something moving you forward... a drive that seems to be coming from deep within you.

As you get closer to this beautiful creature standing in front of you, she smiles... and looks at your face.

You reach a hand out to touch her arm. This time, the touch feels very unusual. You breathe deep. Your pulse begins to quicken. You can feel the hairs on your body stand up in waves.

You are so focused on this timeless dance that is unfolding, that you don't notice a rustling in the trees behind you.

Your interest in this girl has not gone unnoticed.

All at once, you sense the presence of others. You spin your head around to see who is behind you.

And there stands the leader of your group, along with many other adults, including your father and mother.

An instinctive sense of fear strikes deep into your stomach… your eyes widen… and your throat becomes constricted and dry. You sense that you are in great danger, even though you've done nothing wrong.

The leader of your group is looking directly at you, with a look that makes you fear for your life.

“The Boy Must Die!” he yells.

Your mother runs to him, protesting… “No, he's just a boy, he's done nothing wrong!”

But her cries fall on deaf ears.

The leader of your group, along with several other men, take you away from this beautiful girl, and drag you into the forest.You are blindfolded, and taken to a secret cave... a cave that you've only heard stories about.

Over the next day, four other young men are brought to the cave as well. It seems that all of you are to die.

The men from your group, including the leader, come into the cave. They are painted with strange symbols on their faces and bodies.

They look sternly at the group of young men... and the leader says “It is time for the boys to die.”

One-by-one, they take each boy, force his mouth open, and pour a putrid liquid down his throat. Next, they rub a sticky mixture of fruit pulp on each boy... from head to toe.

The men leave.

You are alone with your friends, all preparing to die, in mortal fear.

You here the frightening sound of large logs being stacked across the front of the cave, sealing you and your friends inside. At this moment, you realize that you are going to die without ever knowing what would have happened with that beautiful girl you were standing in front of just yesterday.

You can feel the poison that the men gave you taking effect. Your stomach is beginning to hurt. As you become more and more afraid, your mind begins to create frightful nightmares you've never imagined before…

You don't realize it, but in the liquid the men poured down your throat was a drug that is now taking over your mind. It's making the nightmares far worse that anything you could ever experience during normal sleep.

As you and your friends begin to cry and scream with fear, you begin to notice strange sensations all over your body.

You reach down to touch, and feel something moving on your skin. You realize that large ants have been attracted by the fruit on your body, and are coming in large
numbers to eat...

You try to brush them away, but there are far too many of them. It seems like the more you swat at them, the more they tear away at your flesh.

And this is just the beginning.

After what seems like weeks of this incredible psychological and physical torture, you begin to realize that you are probably dead. You and the other boys have cried and screamed for so long… and the ants have eaten so much of you… that there is no chance that you're alive.

In reality, it's only been one night, but the drugs have made it seem much longer.

A hand pulling you up by the arm wakes you. You open your eyes… and there is the leader of your group... pulling you up... standing over you… his face painted with a new and different design.

“Am I dead?” you ask.

“Yes”, he says.

“The boy is dead, and the man will now live.”

Over the next several days, the men initiate you into manhood. You are taught the secrets and qualities of being a man, and you are tested severely.

One night, as you are sitting around a fire with the other men, you are told ghost stories… afterwards the men take you into the woods, and circumcise you… with only a stick in your mouth to bite for the pain.

When you are finally brought back to the main group to live, your mother seems very different. Instead of opening her arms to you, she seems to be staying away.

You are told that you will no longer sleep in the house with your mother. You will be living with the MEN now.

Over the next several years, you are taught how to live as a man, how to take care of yourself and your group, and how to use your natural talents to attract a woman and live a fulfilled life.

The End.

…Were you able to find the secret?

If you missed it, fear not. It’s not easy to spot… both in the story, and in the “real world” where you can use it to meet and attract the women that you want.

But now… I’d like to spell it out for you… and show you how you can use it to dramatically improve your success with women, starting immediately…

The “Secret Reason” Why Some Men Have Success With Women Without Trying…While Most Struggle And FAIL…

I’d like to tell you another story…

This one is about me… but it just might be about YOU, too…

Have you ever blown it with a woman that you really liked?

Maybe she was even interested in you in the beginning… but you somehow managed to screw it up anyway?

I know I have.And after it would happen, I would rack my brain for weeks trying to figure out what I did wrong.I would act out every possible scenario in my mind…

“What if I had said this to her instead of this?”

“Maybe I should have called her on Thursday instead of waiting 2 days… Did it look like I was playing games? Or maybe I should have waited 3?”

“Did I miss my chance to make a move? Maybe if I had just done it when we were at ___, everything would have turned out alright…”

I would go through these scenarios over and over again—in my mind and to my friends… no doubt driving them nuts.I would eventually figure out where I thought I had made my mistake… and swear not to ever make that same mistake again.

And then I’d meet another special woman…I would promise myself that THIS TIME… I was going to do it right.

And guess what happened?

You got it. I would manage to screw it up again.

I went through this painful cycle MANY times.If you’re like most guys, you’ve been there… and you know how much it sucks.It feels like things might NEVER work out for you with a woman you are REALLY interested in… and that you might be forced to “settle” for someone you’re not really into… or no one at all.

When we blow it with a woman we like, we tend to attribute our screw-ups to the “little things”… because it feels like that is where we made our mistakes.We tend to analyze these things to death - “Maybe I should have waited for her to call me” or… “Maybe I should have made a move here” or… “If only I wouldn’t have said ___”, etc…

Well, I never realized it at the time, but there was something MUCH BIGGER going on in these situations than the “details”…

Yes, our screw-ups probably WERE the result of one or more of these mistakes…

Maybe we called at the wrong time or too many times… maybe we missed our opportunity to make a move… or maybe the “wuss” slipped out and we said or did the wrong thing…

But the real problem here is not the mistakes themselves…Our problem is the REASON WHY we keep on making these mistakes.

I’m sure you’ve noticed how guys who are “naturally” successful with women don’t seem to “screw it up” very often…

It’s like they can grab the attention of any woman they choose— and keep her interested as long as they want to—without needing any “techniques” or lines to help them do it.

But how?

How do they know just the right thing to say at the right time, or when to make a move… or how to get a woman interested in them in the first place?

Some guys just seem to know what to do with women… why don’t we?

Isn’t attracting women supposed to be a natural thing to do?

Our ancestors have been meeting and attracting women for MILLIONS of years… if they hadn’t, we wouldn’t be here.So, up until now, why did we keep on screwing things up? Shouldn’t we have known this stuff instinctively?

The “Missing Piece” That Is FORCING You To Screw Things Up With One Woman After Another…


The question of why some men are naturally BAD with women is one I’ve thought about a lot over the last few years…Here’s something else to think about:

What if I were to tell you that guys who are “naturals” with women have a “secret guide” inside of them that tells them EXACTLY the right thing to say and do with a woman… every time?

What if I were to also tell you that—like a compass—this guide is NEVER WRONG. It always points them in the right direction… and by following it’s advice, it’s virtually impossible to “screw up”…

Men have possessed this guide for MILLIONS of years.Up until the last few hundred years or so, men who didn’t have it failed to attract a mate.They didn’t reproduce, and their genes weren’t passed on.

These days—thanks to massive increases in population—guys who don’t have it may “get lucky” and reproduce, but it usually isn’t with someone that they REALLY want…Of course… guys who DO possess it are the guys who end up with the women all of the other guys want…I’m sure you’ve known or heard of some of these men throughout your life.

I’m also sure that you—like me—have wondered why they “have it” and YOU don’t.

I’m sure you also wondered what “it” is. What is this “thing” that allows them to attract women so easily?

Now… finally… you’re about to find out…

How Modern Society Has ROBBED YOU Of Your Inherent NATURAL Ability To Attract Women…


This secret to why some men get more women than they can handle is something YOU also possess inside of you.The only difference between you and the “naturals” is that you haven’t fully developed it.No one has ever told you what “it” is… and what it’s all about.

This secret is called MANHOOD.

Let me explain…

Awhile back, I made a program called “Mastery With Women & Dating”. After the last night of filming, I was having dinner with my good friend Rick, and chatting with him about the problems that guys have with women.

You’ve probably seen Rick on one of my programs. He’s someone that a lot of men look up to when it comes to understanding women… you won’t find more of a “natural” than this guy.Rick said something very profound to me…

He said that as he talked to the guys who had attended the program, it was obvious to him that these guys had never learned what it meant to be a MAN.

They had no concept of what “being a man” was about.

They didn’t understand what differentiated a man from a boy, what qualities women are attracted to in men, or how to develop into a man.

So I started to think about this point, and I realized that there was something deeper going on here, and that he had a great point.By virtue of being born relatively recently, in modern cultures, most of us men were basically not offered the process of “becoming a man” the way it evolved over literally MILLIONS of years.

We missed the initiations, the challenges, and the EARNING of our manhood.

These days, humans are living longer, but we’re maturing slower… and instead of growing up and living an enjoyable, mature life… many men end up staying in the “adolescent” phase of their lives for DECADES.This "stunted growth" process leaves us with that empty feeling of anxiety and frustration that you might call the “extended childhood syndrome”.

We grew… but as a result… many of us never really “grew up”.

Even worse, we’ve recently been going through a cultural phenomenon called “the men’s movement” that, while doing a lot of good, has obscured the reality that we are, fundamentally, MEN.And because of this, many of us failed to really become MEN… and develop the inherent natural ability to attract women that is part of BEING A MAN.

I call this phenomenon: “The Mysterious Missing Manhood.”

When developed, your Manhood is like your own “internal compass” that guides you to success in your interactions with women.A man who is MISSING his Manhood is like a ship trying to sail the ocean with no guidance systems whatsoever.

In other words, he is bound for disaster.

A woman can usually sense instantly if a man is “missing” his Manhood…Even if you are able to “fool her” with lines and techniques… without the right internal guidance… you are bound to “slip up” and make a mistake that reveals the TRUTH.

This is why these little things DO count so much with women…

When you call one time too many… or miss your chance to make a move, a woman doesn’t say to herself, “He calls too much…” or “he’s not confident enough…” No…

What she does do is get the gut feeling that you aren’t a REAL MAN.

And when that happens, the possibility for attraction or a relationship is instantly not an option in her mind… and she can’t control it.An inner switch flips inside of her, and it creates an invisible barrier… and even though that process and the barrier are invisible, they are still very real… and very obvious to her.

Without this issue handled, the only way to get attention from women is becoming a master of PRETENDING to be someone… and using techniques to cover up your inability to be who you are.But as I’m sure you know… eventually, this deeper problem WILL cause you to screw things up.

The “Mysterious Missing Manhood” is as painful to women as it is to men… and unless you learn how to develop your Missing Manhood, you will go on feeling lonely, out of control, and desperate… and nothing you try will fix it.

*Followed by details on how to get his product*
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So did u guys learn ANYTHING from his long-winded sales pitch?

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